If you don't love it, don't do it.

I think everyone knows that I'm all about doing that little (and sometimes alot) extra when you can.  It's the details (large and small) that make your wedding your wedding.  But here's the thing I've noticed as of late.  Having, doing, planning, buying extras that you don't looooooove, just because you think you like it okay.  Or you're seeing it everywhere else.  Or even worse, because someone convinced you to- so you're going to add it.  My advice is simply this.

"Say no".

Why? Something that you really do LOVE could come up later and then that "um, yeah, I think I'll do this is already in place and now LOVE doesn't get to happen. Blech.

Just because I like posts with pictures; I LOVE this:

Not hanging though, perfectly placed clusters (piles) sitting on the grounds of a great lawn.  LOVE it.