Christian Dior Makeup? Yes Please.

Its an incredibly rare occasion where I'll say, "Oh my gosh go enter this contest!"

I'm saying it now, so you can bet it's worth it to click on over to Style Me Pretty.
They've partnered with Dior Beauty to give away Wedding Day makeup for a bride.
E.nough.said
Contest ends Aug. 10, so get to it!

Preparing for your floral consult

A brilliant bride goes to consultations prepared and open minded.  The problem so many people run into is that they don't know what being prepared means.  So here's a few simple things that will help you out.

1. Know who you need flowers for: all the ladies, gents and kids.
2. Know as much as possible about the venues you'll be using.  By this I mean, what times your florist will have available to deliver, install and strike, the number and sizes of tables you'll be using, and what sites you'll be using for which parts of your wedding day. Also provide the florist with the on site coordinators contact information if you aren't using an independent wedding planner.
3. Bring a picture of your wedding dress.
   
4. Know and give your comfortable and bottom line budget.
5. Let your florist know if you would like them to give you a creative proposal or if you prefer to have something quite similar to what you're showing them.
6. Know the kinds of flowers you like and the ones you hate.  Best bet is to bring pictures. Be as descriptive as possible. Blogs and wedding books are great for this. Here are a few good ones:

• Beautiful Wedding Flowers: More than 300 Corsages, Bouquets, and Centerpieces
• The Knot Book of Wedding Flowers
• Signature Sasha: Magnificent Weddings by Design
• Weddings by Tara Guérard
• Colin Cowie Wedding Chic: 1,001 Ideas for Every Moment of Your Celebration
• Signature Weddings: Creating a Day Uniquely Your Own 

My little list

Here's a list I compiled a few years ago (regrets and I told you so's) that made me laugh again tonight.  Boy I wish I could get everyone to agree with me.

• Get video. Confirmed #1 regret. You cannot see yourself walk down the aisle and you can't hear your dad's toast ever again and you will never see the best man polka with your grandma and be loving it.
• Do not include registry on invites. Bad etiquette, I don't care what anyone tells you.
• Do a trial run with hair and makeup. It's worth your sanity.
• Don't order bathroom flowers.  They're stupid.
• Have pre wedding day time with your photographer. Your wedding day photography will will better for it. Make your photographer a friendly face and not a stranger.
• It is not a media circus.  Your photographers and videographers are never in the same place at the same time.  Most clients ask me if the videographer ever came. No I am not joking.
• Don't bring your dog.  They are cute but stress everyone out and add more work.
• Eat your dinner.  You will be starving at the end of the night.
• Don't make a minute by minute schedule.  Being early and bored is better than rushed and late. Pad your timeline.
• Don't skip outdoor lighting. Events in the dark? Really?  No, a tiki torch will not light the place enough.
• Don't give up fit for pretty. Under the dress- break out the Spanx leave Victoria in the hotel room for later.
• Don't get drunk. A doorknob will find your eye somehow and you won't look as cute in your sparkler exit photo that you don't remember taking.  Even though you have the burns to prove it.

Another great wedding video

Lauren & Joe had a gorgeous wedding at LaPlaya in Naples late last summer. They shared their wedding day with family and friends from New York to Naples. You can really see the love between these newlyweds when they share their first dance; you'll notice that Lauren is singing word for word to her new husband.  I didn't see this that night, because I wasn't close enough to see.  So the video was like seeing it from an entirely new perspective and now I have even better memories.  I'm grateful for that.  Oh and if you only knew why Lauren & Joe were laughing at their ceremony.  Oh my gosh, it was great!

Lauren and Joe - Directors Cut Video, LaPlaya, Naples from Rob Epple on Vimeo.

The only thing I wish I could experience again that wasn't on video was Lauren's reaction when I brought her into the ballroom to preview it.  It made my day.  I loved that we got to use the shades of purple from lavender to eggplant. And could you just die over the wreath of flowers around the cake?

Something Blue

Just a little Saturday happiness.

Something Blue.