{Resource for you} If you haven't figured it out already, not all wedding pros are listed in one place. Can you imagine how awesome that would be? Anyway, browse the web to get a good idea of who is out there.
Last week I bumped into the Perfect Wedding Guide (via twitter) and I have to admit, I was pleasantly surprised by what I found! They have very easy to use planning tools. The seating chart manager alone could keep you from losing your bridal sanity. There's also about a million wedding vendors listed (slight exaggeration), bridal show listings, tips and giveaways.
And of course, they have a blog. More importantly, a good blog- full of tips that are worth searching the archives for.
The PWG doesn't have a big presence in our immediate neck of the woods (they should come to the We Wed brunch!), but if you're just about anywhere else in the country- you are in luck!